Skip to content
Spectrum Family Law Logo
  • Areas of Family LawExpand
    • DivorceExpand
      • Divorce Mediation
      • Collaborative Law
      • Uncontested Divorce
      • Joint Divorce
    • Child Custody
    • Child Support
    • Surrogacy & Fertility Law
    • Spousal Support
    • Maintenance Enforcement Program
    • Marital Property Division
    • Common Law Separation
    • Marriage AgreementsExpand
      • Cohabitation Agreements
      • Prenuptial Agreement
      • Separation Agreements
    • Real Estate for Families
    • Coaching & Self-Representation
  • Locations & TeamExpand
    • Meet Your Team
    • Locations
    • Contact Us
    • About Us
    • Awards & Recognition
  • Knowledge CentreExpand
    • Alberta Family Law
    • BC Family Law
    • Divorce Deep Dive
    • Child Support
    • Separation Info
    • Mediation Tips
    • Vancouver Articles
    • Calgary Articles
    • Edmonton Articles
Get Help Now
Spectrum Family Law Logo

Who Decides Whether Grandparents Can Have Contact with the Children After Parents Separate?

Hours Updated onMarch 15, 2023 Categories AB
Who Decides Whether Grandparents Can Have Contact with the Children


When couples separate or divorce, extended family members may have concerns about their ability to continue to spend time with the children of the relationship.

In particular, grandparents, who may have previously enjoyed a close relationship with the children, can find themselves wondering what they can do if the parents’ separation or divorce has resulted in their access to the children being diminished, or even cut off entirely.

Conversely, parents who for various reasons may have objections to the continued involvement of grandparents or extended family in the care of the children may also wonder what their options are.

In the recent decision of VW v AT, 2022 ABCA 261, the Alberta Court of Appeal provided some guidance concerning principles that may apply when grandparents seek an order for contact with the children, against the wishes of the parents.

Learn More → Top Reasons Not to Self-Represent in Alberta Family Law Matters

Table of Contents
  • The Circumstances in VW v AT
    • The Test for Access
  • Parental Autonomy

The Circumstances in VW v AT

The VW case involved the perhaps unusual situation of parents who, although separated, were united in their opposition to allowing the maternal grandparents to have contact with the children. The grandparents had previously been very involved in the children’s lives. However, the parents expressed discomfort with what they described as racist, sexist, classist, anti-Semitic and homophobic beliefs of the grandparents, as well as their views on discipline and parenting.

Since 2018, there had been no in-person contact between the children and the grandparents, although they did have contact through social media without the parents’ consent. The children indicated they wanted a relationship with the grandparents.

Following an application by the grandparents, an order granting them contact with the children was issued, and two supervised visits occurred in August and September 2021. The parents however appealed the order and obtained a stay preventing further visits pending hearing of the appeal.

On appeal, the parents were successful, and the order providing for contact between the grandparents and the children was vacated. The Court’s reasons for granting the appeal provide important insight into how access disputes between parents and grandparents are likely to be approached.





Our family-focused paralegals are standing by to guide you.



The Test for Access

The parents in VW were not married, and therefore the matter was decided under Alberta’s Family Law Act (“FLA”), rather than the Divorce Act.

Section 35(1) of the FLA provides that a court “may, on application by any person, including a guardian, make an order providing for contact between a child and a person who is not a guardian.” Section 35(5) provides that before granting a contact order, the court must be satisfied that contact is in the child’s best interests, and the section specifically directs courts to consider whether:

  1. the child’s physical, psychological or emotional health may be jeopardized if contact between the child and the person for whom contact with the child is proposed is denied, and
  2. the guardians’ denial of contact […] is unreasonable.

According to the Court, the correct test under s. 35(5) is not whether the children’s interests would be jeopardized if contact is permitted, but rather whether they would be jeopardized if contact is denied. The Court of Appeal in VW held that the chambers judge had misapplied this test, and granted the parents’ appeal on that basis:

[28] It was for the grandparents to establish that if contact was denied, the children’s physical, psychological or emotional health may be jeopardized. By stating the issue was whether contact would be permitted, the chambers judge reversed the onus.

As the Court pointed out, this formulation of the test also places the burden of presenting evidence to support the best interests analysis on the grandparents, not the parents.

Ultimately, VW indicates that to grant an order for contact between grandparents and grandchildren, a judge must find that there is “a risk of harm to the child if contact which has been found to enhance the child’s best interests is removed” (citing BM v JM, 2019 ABCA 503).

Parental Autonomy

In VW, the parents had made the further argument that as parents, they should have the autonomy to decide who has contact with their children, and that the chambers judge was in error to order contact with the grandparents against their wishes. Although the Court did not have to address this argument in order to decide the appeal, it nevertheless provided opinion on this point.

The Court reiterated that decisions related to access for grandparents are made by looking to the best interests of the child and weighing relevant factors to assess whether access should be granted. The FLA provides a lengthy enumeration of specific factors that courts are directed to take into consideration in evaluating best interests. The list is not exhaustive, and courts are not precluded from considering additional elements that they may find relevant in individual cases.

The Court found that the position put forward by the parents in VW amounted to an argument that parental autonomy is essentially paramount – ie, that it may take precedence over other considerations that form part of the best interests analysis. The Court disagreed with that view, and declined to recognize “parental autonomy as a right that overrides the best interests of the child or that parental decisions are prevailing in determining the best interests of the child.”

On the contrary, the Court emphasized that the views of the parents are simply one factor to be taken into account in determining whether contact with grandparents is in the children’s best interests:

Get Family Law help in Alberta & BC - Click Here

[50] The Family Law Act at s. 18 enumerates factors a court must consider in determining the best interests of the child. The list includes consideration of the parents’ wishes as s. 18(2)(ix) provides for “the views of the child’s current guardians”. There is no basis for this Court to interpret parental wishes as having priority. Ultimately, the best interests of the child are paramount. The chambers judge did not err in not deferring to the parents’ decision.

The VW decision highlights thecareful and context-specific inquiry that is generally required when disputes over grandparents’ access to children arise. As the Court’s reasons emphasize, there is no presumption that access should, or should not, be permitted.

However, it is also clear that in assessing the children’s best interests under the FLA, grandparents will bear the onus of demonstrating that the children’s physical, psychological or emotional health would be jeopardized if contact is denied.

Spectrum AB Map

We currently have three offices across Alberta — Edmonton, Calgary, and Red Deer. We serve the entire province of Alberta (and BC). We also have the infrastructure to work with any of our clients virtually — even the furthest regions of Alberta.

Call 1 (855) 892-0646 (toll free) to get routed to the best office for you or contact us online for general inquiries.

We also have a dedicated intake form to help you get the ball rolling. Our intake team will review your specific case and advise you on the next steps to take as well as what to expect moving forward. That’s the best way to schedule an appointment

Our offices are generally open 8:30 a.m.—4:30 p.m., Mon—Fri.

Get Family Law help in Alberta & BC - Click Here

Learn More → Reasons why you need to hire a family lawyer

Spectrum Family Law Seal
Ayesha Siddiqua - Spectrum Family Law

Ayesha Siddiqua

FAMILY LAWYER

Ayesha possesses an exceptional ability to put her clients at ease, driven by her active listening skills and adept problem-solving abilities. Her passion lies in practicing law and achieving favourable resolutions for her clients.

  • Learn More About Ayesha
End Block Form

Our expert intake staff are standing by.


We Can Help
Tell us a bit about your problem — we can fix it.

The Legal Review Process by Spectrum Family Law

  • Spectrum strives for high-quality, legally verified content.
  • Content is meticulously researched and reviewed by our legal writers/proofers (usually local law students).
  • Details are sourced from trusted legal sources like the Family Law Act.
  • Each article is edited for accuracy, clarity, and relevance.
  • If you find any incorrect information or discrepancies in legal facts, we kindly ask that you contact us with a correction to ensure accuracy.

Recent Posts

  • Alberta Court Approves Child Relocation Despite Father’s OppositionMay 6, 2025
  • Interim Spousal Support Can Be Ordered Despite Waiver Dispute: Stoney v EastonMay 6, 2025
  • Alberta Judicial Dispute Resolution: Streamlining Legal DisputesMarch 14, 2025

A methodology of alternative dispute resolution

You control the outcome that works best for you – rather than a judge who hears your case.

We are expert family law litigators, however we do so with an understanding of the emotional stress that litigation can sometimes have on our client and the existing family unit.

Our team will advise you on the benefits of alternative dispute resolution, including mediation and arbitration. These alternative methods empower the parties to negotiate an outcome that accounts for their respective interests in a non-adversarial setting – minimizing disruption to your family.

Cost-effective, timely relief. Get Help Here
The Canadian Bar Association
Law Society of Alberta
Law Society of British Columbia
Three Best Rated Award
Martindale-Hubbell Logo
Calgary Best Rated Badge
We can help you get your life back.
Join Team Spectrum!

We're looking for highly motivated associates to join our busy team.
Spectrum Family Law offers competitive compensation and a spirited corporate culture.

Click Here for more info
EDMONTON

Suite 205, 10216 124 Street, Edmonton, Alberta T5N 4A3
Local: (780) 756-0076
Toll-Free: 1 (855) 892-0646

CALGARY

Suite 700, 396 11 Ave SW, Calgary, Alberta T2R 0C5
Local: (403) 452-0043
Toll-Free: 1 (888) 410-1677

VANCOUVER

Suite 301, 134 Abbott Street Vancouver, BC V6B 2K4
Local: (778) 452-0221
Toll-Free: 1 (877) 402-1004

RED DEER

Suite 203, 4807 50 Avenue, Red Deer, Alberta T4N 4A5
Local: (587) 441-6424
Toll-Free: 1 (855) 348-2033

MORE

Contact Us
Payments
Privacy Policy
Terms of Use
Disclaimer



We are inclusive - © 2025 - Spectrum Family Law LLP Sitemap

Facebook Linkedin Instagram

Do you need assistance with a family law matter?

Our family-focused paralegals are standing by to guide you.

Get Help Here

Do you need assistance with a family law matter?

Our family-focused paralegals are standing by to guide you.

Get Help Here
  • Areas of Family Law
    • Divorce
      • Divorce Mediation
      • Collaborative Law
      • Uncontested Divorce
      • Joint Divorce
    • Child Custody
    • Child Support
    • Surrogacy & Fertility Law
    • Spousal Support
    • Maintenance Enforcement Program
    • Marital Property Division
    • Common Law Separation
    • Marriage Agreements
      • Cohabitation Agreements
      • Prenuptial Agreement
      • Separation Agreements
    • Real Estate for Families
    • Coaching & Self-Representation
  • Locations & Team
    • Meet Your Team
    • Locations
    • Contact Us
    • About Us
    • Awards & Recognition
  • Knowledge Centre
    • Alberta Family Law
    • BC Family Law
    • Divorce Deep Dive
    • Child Support
    • Separation Info
    • Mediation Tips
    • Vancouver Articles
    • Calgary Articles
    • Edmonton Articles